Stare into my eyes

Автор: Jill Jones 20.12.2018

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Dogs will sometimes avoid eye contact too if they are very submissive, not used to being around someone, if they are nervous, or if they are afraid. She can reaffirm her link to you and it provides social stability to her. His behaviors are indications of his feelings toward you.


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My dog makes eye contact. She is watching me, waiting. So why do dogs look into our eyes? Is it hormonal, a sign of aggression, or just another way that dogs have of begging? Why is it usually dogs? When working with other species I have noticed that they have a tendency to look anywhere but our eyes. Even a few of the species that do look directly at you, usually the carnivores, look at the face, not directly into the eyes. I know I am going to anger a lot of cat owners with that comment but I am basing this on my own experience. Dogs will sometimes avoid eye contact too if they are very submissive, not used to being around someone, if they are nervous, or if they are afraid. After a while, though, most dogs make and hold eye contact more than any other species. Animal behaviorist Alexandra Horowitz pointed out the difference between the gaze of dogs and that of other species in her book Inside of a Dog. Horowitz believes that the dog´s unique ability to look into our eyes and hold our gaze was one of the first steps in domestication. Since dogs have been domesticated at least 10,000 years and some scientists believe much longer, up to 100,000 this ability has been selected for and carried down for many years. Why have they developed this ability? Why is it that when you look into a dog's eyes you feel that he is looking at you, that he is reading your intentions and feelings? A study from Japan April 2015 reveals that when dogs stare into our eyes the activity causes us to release oxytocin into our bloodstream. The oxytocin levels in the urine are increased and dogs can smell this; thus, by making us feel good they feel better when they are staring at us. Oxytocin is a hormone that is released when mothers nurse their puppies, so maybe the dogs stare at us in the same way that a mother stares at her own pups. In some ways maintaining eye contact is its own reward. The more you stare at your dog, the more he stares at you, the better you both feel. What a great thing. Others are more negative and feel that dogs are just staring becuase they expect you to throw them a piece of food. If dogs are really just thinking about food all the time, like some researchers think, staring is just a means of gaining information about where the food is. Some dog trainers like Cesar Millan think that dogs are staring just becuase they are looking for direction from their owner. They want the owner to tell them what to do and so are looking and waiting for a command. Looking into a dog's eyes is not the same as staring and most dogs can tell the difference. Staring can be a threat in dogs and in some other species. When someone stares at a dog, maintaining eye contact when he or she has no right to do so, it can make a nervous dog hostile or scared. Sometimes the human does it is without even realizing it. Children too might do this without even being aware. Some dog trainers and behaviorists believe that a dog that looks back at its owner is challenging his authority as leader of the pack; numerous articles will tell you how to establish dominance by staring down your dog and discouraging his looking at you. Most trainers no longer believe this and tend to encourage eye contact. Getting the dog to maintain eye contact is now an important part of training. Eye contact in dogs is even a hot topic of research in some places. They recommend that owners increase their eye contact with their puppies so that they can build a better relationship. So why have dogs developed the ability to stare into our eyes? It is all about attention. Dogs are great companions and want to be loved. Since dogs know that what we think will influence our behavior to them, they are looking at us because they want to know how we feel. Look into my eyes and tell me differently. Virányi , A simple reason for a big difference: Wolves do not look back at humans, but dogs do. Miho Nagasawa,Shouhei Mitsui,Shiori En, Nobuyo Ohtani, Mitsuaki Ohta, Yasuo Sakuma,Tatsushi Onaka,Kazutaka Mogi,Takefumi Kikusui, Oxytocin-gaze positive loop and the coevolution of human-dog bonds Science 17 April 2015: Vol. Got her as soon as old enough to leave her mother.. This is because she had so much more energy then any of the rest. Answered so many of my questions. He was very timid in the beginning. Now years later, he regularly makes eye contact and maintains it. To the point it's sometimes uncomfortable because he just stares. But, he's in no way aggressive, never even misbehaves - he's the best, sweetest dog I've ever had or met. I've always believed his making eye contact was a great thing, showing he's very comfortable with us considering the absence of ANY behavioral issues. This article just reinforced that belief. He's always been very hyper aware of our moods - if I'm feeling down he knows it and will come cuddle with me. Literally cuddle, he's a lap dog. So thank you for writing this!!! Some dog breeds use eye contact more than others. Border Collies and Aussies eye contact to communicate with sheep and cattle as well as humans. All of my dogs have been rescues and all have been mixed breeds. My Border Collie mix and Aussie-mix were my smartest dogs and both were had keen eye contact skills. I hand signal train all of my dogs - and any neighbor dogs who seem to be constantly in our yard - so that I can issue a command without interrupting a conversation with a human. My dogs watch my face constantly - which can be unnerving at times - and without a word I can command them to get into heel position, sit, stay, lay down, roll over, come and sit facing me, return to heel position, heel, sit, stay while I walk around them and away, lay down, sit up, come, return to heel position and release - all without a word. It is a fav game for them. On the subject of cats. My cat makes eye contact with me also. She is also hand trained to come, lay down no sit , and jump to a designated spot... She is also very talkative, more than our other cats, and I always know when her food dish has only 10 pieces left or is totally empty - she is a drama queen feline. She is tiny for a cat, but looks our 100 pound Shepherd-mix in the eye - without a hiss or growl - and defiantly walks away, often directly under his legs. Thanks for your post. Do you work with your dogs in English? Have you seen this at all? I train in Arabic because dogs seem to respond slower in Portuguese. Thanks for coming by! My youngest Dog is just 6 and everything seems to have come together all at once. Eye contact with my dog has 3 categories. Feed me, I have to use the restroom and that piece of pizza looks amazing! Feed me is a basic sit and stare. Use the restroom is a much more serious look and stare with a distinctly closer positioning to where I am. That pizza belongs to me is a combination of feed me with batting eyelashes. The article was a great read and you really deserved it. I have my dog trained with hand signals so she looks at me during our sessions. Maybe just because I do not like to talk much! It really does make a difference in our relationship. Do you use any hand signal with Lily, or just tell her you want to sit with your eyes? She sounds like a great dog. I have been playing around with it a little bit, and I can get Lily to sit just by making eye contact. It is amazing how well dogs read body language, and I think humans could use it more to their advantage to have a closer relationship with their pet. Useful, awesome, beautiful and so interesting! I have a dog and she is my little baby! I have had her since she was a pup. She is a little over one now. About 15 months old. I will hold eye contact and sooner or later she will break it to give me kisses. It took them forever to get used to the fact that Bailey, unlike their little Westie, actually looks them in the eye. I'm pretty sure most of the time it's for attention but there are times I catch her staring and I swear she's just looking at me with nothing but love in those big brown eyes. This was a very fascinating read. I never really thought too much about the fact that dogs really look people in the eye and how complicated that one seemingly simple act can be. My fella was a staunch believer that a dog looking a human in the eye is a direct challenge. I told him perhaps with a dog you don't know that might be true. He came to undertand through my gentle teachings, that dogs are a lot more aware than he realised. This article substantiates many of my beliefs. Scientific evidence is not necessary when dealing with the hearts of all creatures, humans, dogs and more. Dogs and humans are both very emotional creatures, making eye contact is a way to get a reading on current feelings and I believe its also a sign of respect. Being able to convey without words is why dog and man are best friends. I think it depends on the breed a lot too. Herders can take a glance as a challenge, have had lots of experience with that. Interesting article, well written. I have always had a dog or dogs until the recent past. Lewis, you can argue with him in his books if you want. Or me if you want in a private email, just don't want to change the subject here, or sound like you aren't worth talking to. It is so easy to tell the difference in staring as opposed to gazing. I really disagree with C. At least I feel I do not, but there are as many different relationships as there are dog owners, and I have only known a few. There is always a lot to learn. Is it possible, when dogs react negatively to prolonged eye contact, that they're interpreting other body language as well, such as tensed facial muscles, or a stance they perceive to be threatening? I often engage my cat in a staring contest just to see who will blink first. Sometimes, just as my eyes are starting to feel like sandpaper, she'll slowly blink, turn away and jump off my lap. I tell here I've been trivialized and dismissed by better animals but it doesn't seem to faze her. I think she knows what I'm thinking, and I'm sure I know what she is trying to tell me by her eyes. Her eyes tell me when she is happy, hungry, wants to play, go for a walk, afraid, or depressed. Yes, she gets depressed when her favorite friend, a Shih Tzu goes home after a week long visit. I takes Baby a couple of days before she is her old self. I enjoyed your Hub as always, and voted it UP, and will share. And in my experience dogs are less comfortable with eye contact than cats are. Although they will look at you and attempt various types of communication via the eyes, mostly dogs rely on body language. Whereas a Cat will look right at your eyes and hold your gaze, and to me any way it feels like they are capable of a much greater range of communication via the eyes alone than dogs. I'm much more comfortable with dogs, but I am intrigued by the sense you get from cats sometimes. The domestication in your Hub is a significant difference between wild wolves and domesticated dogs and is why dogs make better pets. Interesting how we underappreciate such a powerful, yet common, simple thing. I hold firm to my belief that dogs are smarter than humans. They obviously read us better than we can read ourselves. Many of them have quite a bit of expression in their own faces. Did I mention I just love puppies and they're always puppies no matter how old they are! As always, love your hubs. Voted up and shared!! This is an interesting article. I never would have thought about it in any depth had I not read it. I agree that dogs are very different from other animals. I also agree that they are very different from cats. In general I believe cats to be very aloof animals. They basically don't need us and in my opinion are the most snobbish of domesticated animals. Dogs on the other hand are probably the friendliest species on the planet. We have 6 cats and 3 are especially personable. They do gaze into my eyes and establish eye contact as often as my dogs do. One of my cats will lay there and gaze into my eyes with pure pleasure when I rub his stomach, very similar to a dog. Another cat of mine will look into my eyes when I ask for him to perform a trick rather than just stare at the food in my hand. He is especially intelligent compared to most however. Though dogs will make eye contact more frequently and even with strangers don't write off cats. They just happen to save it for those they are quite bonded with I think. I know there are a lot of people out there who disagree with me though, so who am I to say they are wrong? I think Peggy´s comment is correct in that they will glance at you but not gaze. And like wetnosedog comments, dogs seem to look at you a lot. One of the animal behaviorists I read even commented that dogs would look at a human more than a chimpanzee, and would act according to what the human was glancing at like the location of food. They are smart creatures and also empathetic and can easily pick up on how we are feeling. We have 2 inside cats and they definitely look into our eyes as well. They do not seem to hold a gaze as long. I had never thought about it before reading this hub. Will be paying more attention now. Voted up and interesting. My youngest, who needs to lose weight, gives me those beautiful eyes when I'm eating. The oldest male looks at me when he's on the couch-he wants to be petted or reassured he can be there-one sassy dog will bark her head off cause he's on the couch. Bella's eyes follow me everywhere when she knows it's about time for her nightly belly rub. I do notice my youngest dog will look away when she is in one of her moods-the latest, I found a little sore on her under all that fur-and she didn't want to be combed. I think the comb got that sore spot and it hurt. When I became aware of it, I was able to take care of it, apologizing a thousand times cause I never meant to hurt her with the comb. She was looking at me then! Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. 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This article will cover all of that, and will even for on the secret that allows you to make perfect eye contact with a woman every time. Her eyes tell me when she is happy, hungry, wants to play, go for a walk, afraid, or depressed. Because of this we are in the process of adopting a companion for her. It did not si because the other girl he was cheating on me is pregnant. Lots of guys out there will feel embarrassed, avert their eyes, and act like nothing happened. Have a great day, Jade. Unless they are challenged or forced to stand up for themselves in some way, they are happier if no one notices them. Okay, I can appreciate, someone staring at something they admire or find aesthetically pleasing, to say the least hahah. Stare into my eyes is messing around with his hair or his clothes or just can't seem to sit still. I work and my husband is a prime husband who spends a signifiantly more time with her. Because we are very close and I used to caught him stare at me for more many times.

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