The Question

This means that even if you drop her off at 3 a. Have you ever been on a date with a guy who glanced at his watch after two hours only to have a holy crap expression cross his face? Seriously, in the big scheme things what difference does a few more days make. Line 3: I ask for the second date quickly, because that is the purpose of this conversation.

Ask her out at the end of the first date for a second date. If you think it makes sense to text her after the date, then do it.

Ready for Conversational-Confidence On-Demand? - But you could push a bit to find out if he squirms in a good way, or the see ya later way.

First dates can quickly go from okay to totally awkward to what the hell just happened in a matter of minutes. My anxiety goes through the roof. Sometimes, a first date is so bad that you just know you two will never be hanging out again like that time I went out with a guy and our date ended after 20 minutes. But sometimes, a first date experience can be a little tricky. So, how do you know if the first hangout sesh sucked? If there are a lot of quiet, awkward moments, that usually means there is little to no chemistry. Unless you're both really shy, a ton of uncomfortable moments probably means there will be no second date. It's a sign that he's not having a good time or doesn't feel like he can open up to you. He Barely Asks You About YouAnother sign the conversation means there will be no second date? If he spends the entire time talking about himself and doesn't once ask about you. Yes, there's a chance he could just be nervous and can't stop talking, but most of the time when a guy is really interested, he wants to get to know you! He will ask you questions about yourself and he'll really seem interested in your responses. If he doesn't seem like he cares, it's probably because he doesn't. He Talked About His Ex... A Lot Talking about an ex on a date is a big no-no. If he brings up his ex once, because it makes sense with the convo, I'd let it slide. But if he manages to bring up his ex more than once when he really doesn't have to, that's a big sign that he isn't over her just yet. And that means he might not ask you on a second date. Unless he's rebounding, in which case, stay away. He Never Makes A Point Of Saying He's Having A Good TimeWhen a guy is having a good time, he'll tell you! Unless he's uncomfortably shy, he'll want you to know that he's enjoying himself. If he doesn't say it, he probably isn't thinking it. His Body Language Is OffYou can tell a lot by paying attention to body language. If a guy isn't having a good time, he'll be closed off - sitting with his arms crossed, not facing you, not making eye contact, etc. If he's having a good time, he'll be leaning into you, staring into your eyes, smiling and maybe even trying to casually touch you. If his body language is off, it's a good indication a second date is not just around the corner. He's On His Phone A Lot Unless he's just plain rude, a guy who is enjoying his first date a lot isn't going to be on his phone. When my BF took me out on our first date, I watched him turn his phone off completely. Once, on a bad date, I literally sat there for five minutes while a guy texted. If he ends things abruptly right after the movie or right after dinner or whatever, that means he's not interested in doing anything else. If he makes up an excuse to end early, that's even worse. If he wants to keep hanging out with you, he'll try to prolong the date. He Never Made Legit Plans When a guy really wants to see you again, he will lock that ish down. And if he says NOTHING? You Don't Hear From Him For A While Afterwards After a great first date with a guy who is interested in you, he will text you probably right after to tell you that a he had a great time and b he can't wait to see you again. Not hearing from him at all that night is a big sign it's not going to happen again. And if you don't hear from him for days? Yeah, kiss that second date goodbye. He Ends It By Saying 'I'll Call You' He's not going to call you. This is a dude's lame way of trying to end things on a nice note while being totally and completely vague. He's not TRYING to lead you on, he's just trying to be nice. He's not going to call you. Have you ever experienced any of these things? Do you agree or disagree with me? Follow Gurl, pretty please!

Men are literal creatures and do not understand mixed signals. I wanted to know if there are guys out there who actually DO take their time to ask a woman out if he IS servile and if he has no reason to fear rejection. First up, congratulations on your first date. The less you brag, the more interested she will be. Being a woman is a blessing, especially being a smart and beautiful one. Plus, he will appreciate the spontaneity, since it indicates that you are an exciting, intriguing person that he should want to get to know more fully. Date several men at once — just for the first few dates. Don't you fear for your life in the hands of this irresponsible fool. A hour a part from eachother. Anon when you had such a good time. He Never Makes A Point Of Saying He's Having A Good TimeWhen a guy is having a good time, he'll tell you!.