Why taking a break in a relationship is good

Автор: Lisa Thompson 19.12.2018

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Blame , or maybe someone in The OC, but it was all the rage. What if he doesn't want to get back together? Relationships are built on the little everyday moments.


why taking a break in a relationship is good

 

A lot of people think of a break as an opportunity to sleep with someone else. As a sex and relationships expert I totally agree with time out occasionally. This happens ALL THE TIME. But classifying it as a break may help avoid the fights that can turn into a break-up later.


why taking a break in a relationship is good

 

I Don’t Understand This “Taking A Break” Business - To most men, a break equals a break up with perks.


why taking a break in a relationship is good

 

Whether you are fighting constantly or just not the same page, this begs the question of if you are going to stay together or break up. For some couples, an easy way to test the waters of sorts is to take a break. Whether this means not seeing each other for a few weeks, days or months, the idea of a break basically promises that you will get back together. But does that really happen? Cons of taking a break Last month, my boyfriend of a year and half and I were hitting a rough patch. So I thought the best way to fix it was to take some time apart to allow myself to think about what I really wanted and if him and I were better together or apart. Instead of jumping right into the break, I did what any normal 19-year-old with an older sister would do and I hopped on the phone instead. To me, taking time apart would make the issues worse because I had time to be alone instead of being with him and communicating. Lauren, a junior at Cornell University, had a similar experience with taking a break in her relationship. She and her boyfriend took a break because she was not sure how to break up with him and she needed her time and space. I think taking a break is prolonging the inevitable breakup. Sarah and her boyfriend took two breaks, one for a week and another for three weeks, in their relationship and she said that both times it actually made the situation worse. She felt pressured and jealous during the break because he would talk to other girls and they both ended up just hurting each other. Many times it just makes things worse. Rhonda Ricardo, a columnist, speaker, screenwriter and author of Cherries Over Quicksand books, spoke with Her Campus about taking breaks in a relationship. Overall, she agrees with Sarah. Ricardo says that a break is never a good idea. But she does agree that you have to set limitations, otherwise you will have a Rachel and Ross break and NO ONE wants that. Kayla, a freshman at the University of Rochester, thinks that taking a break does have its perks. When her and her SO took a break, it made her miss him so much. She was so used to depending on him so it also helped her become more independent. While apart do not cheat on your SO as you will never forget your own disloyalty and your SO will find out; especially in this age of posting and tagging photos of the innocent partying turned cheater-cheater-pumpkin-eater on social media. After your missed weekend together, plan a magical reunion on the town or cozy date at home. Your time apart will give you stories to share and a refreshed outlook on your relationship. So what should you do? Overall, taking a break in your relationship really depends on the type of person you are. If you're like me, taking a break might have seemed like the best option, but it was really just because you were scared of confronting the real issues. After a long sit-down conversation, my boyfriend and I were finally on the same page and things have never been better. Ricardo says that relationships are about communication and if you feel like you need time apart to figure out exactly how , then just make sure to let your SO know what is going on. There is nothing worse than being left in the dark, no matter what side you're on. Regardless of what you choose to do, the goal is for you to be happy. When she is not watching Gilmore Girls or playing with puppies at the local pet store, she spends her time freelancing for numerous publications about celebrities and life. You can find her work on the websites of Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Seventeen, Elle, and Buzzfeed. Follow her on Instagram at isabelcalkins.


Stay in - or Leave - a Relationship?

 

Keep putting yourself out there. Go for more than finding your passion. On the flip side, if you are not really ready for this type of commitment or if your partner is not responsible for you, a break will also help clear your mind and it will give you the strength to breakup with your partner if you are sure they are not the right person for you. For some couples, an easy way to test the waters of sorts is to take a solo. We all know that long-distance relationships fail. That's because, like I said, breaks don't solve your issues - they ignore them. Talk about what matters to you and what matters to your partner, and come up with a solid conclusion.

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