How to Hit on a Bartender

She was leaving and gave another employee her number. I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women 100s of here and I would love to help you too. Trust me, it'll be noticed.

Basically, if she has time to chat with you and wants to, she'll absolutely make time to do that. Actually, you aren't here as much as you think. Her hairstyle, the way she handles people, etc…. All in all, like most things, the answer here is fairly straightforward: Treat this woman like you would any other female in any other situation.

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From a highly scientific survey of fellow bartenders… plus my own experience. And at this point, at least a few dudes in the bar on any given night have hit on me, either that night or previously. We are at work, and we might be having fun at work and like what we do, but we are first and foremost working. With few exceptions, our primary goal back here is to make money, not fuck or find a partner. Some might be DTF at the drop of a hat. But spoiler alert: some of us, like myself, are not at all worth your time. Step 1: Lay some initial groundwork. Like, be in the bar before it gets too busy. But tread carefully with your fucking grenadine, my friend. Most bartenders would rather keep their regulars than sleep with you. Be a decent human being. Step 2: Be attractive. You want to be treated like a customer and nothing more? Then double down on your customer-y monetary transaction. The more you tip, the more valuable you become as a customer. And it was to a 60 year old woman. She had a fantastic pixie cut, stark white against her slightly-tanned fantastic skin, and she ordered a draft beer — and a shot of Jamo. Then she asked if I was looking for a place to live, because she had an empty rental property in the area. I just so happened to be month-to-month in my current place and open to it, so I scribbled out my info and slid it across the bar. But others do have loopholes. Step 6: Do the work. Apart from Debbi, who was obviously different… you have to leave your number, not ask for ours. Just write that shit on the receipt, or leave a business card or something. If we have zero desire to go on a date or hook up with you, your game is pretty much 86'd. Step 7: Repeat Because We like the people we see a lot. It all depends on the bartender.

It should come as no surprise then that dealing with female bartenders is a complete mind-fuck for me. It may seem counterintuitive not to difference your interaction, but if you're an easy customer, he or she will remember you the next time. And her tune really changed when she found out we work at a club downtown. As someone who has bartended myself, here are four other things I would definitely recommend you not say or do to a prime bartender. Always best to APPEAR to be available WITHOUT really being available. Not the whole ball game, but a good start. Is there a way to make sure she goes home with you at the end of the night…. Do: Ask to go on a proper u.