Eventually, both are looking for someone to spend the rest of their lives with. You should be able to tell whether this girl is eager or not. And I also have no hard and fast rules, either. So, I reached out to bestselling author and relationship expert to help me try to crack the first kiss code.

And the chemistry, oh yeah, that was definitely intense. How Long Should You Wait To Kiss?

- Similarly, I have heard of guys who get a first date kiss and think it is open season — then are all over the woman on a second date.

Just to settle a debate between me and my friends... PS: I mean a 'making out' kiss, not a peck on the lips. It certainly felt old at the time. In year 10 I remember me and my friends saying we had to have our first kiss before our 16th birthday because we thought anything past that was too late. Six out of seven of us failed. But I guess we were the sort of people likely to have a TSR account so we would have been older than most. I read somewhere that the average age is 12 - could be balanced out by the fact some people consider their first kiss to be when e. Still, I'm not the only one so idgaf. PS: I mean a 'making out' kiss, not a peck on the lips. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

This is only my idea of how kissing should happen. I think a guy should alwyas wait for a signal from the female. Is she stiff and distant. Step Seventeen — Take a chill pill. Eye contact can also build trust and foster affection. For being said, I don't think a kiss should happen on the first couple of dates, aside from a peck on the cheek.