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The idea that a cisgender woman can strap on a dildo and a harness that makes her feel like a cowboy and a penetrate another person, no big deal, basically seems like the epitome of cool to me. But obviously strap-on sex can be just as awkward as penis-in-vagina penetrative sex. You could be having a great old time until the dildo pops out or goes in the wrong hole or you have to switch positions because it's hitting a spot in her vagina that feels like someone's stabbing her with a dildo, which isn't ideal. Jen Laws, a 30-year-old transgender man and Customer Service Rep for PerfectFitBrand, has some mixed feelings about strap-on sex. The penetrative options are endless. I spoke with a bunch of women and transgender men who love strap-on sex to walk me through all the ins and outs of using a dildo. First things first: Purchase a dildo and a harness. You don't have to choose a dildo that looks like an actual penis. And then there's a third group that thinks they all look the same in the dark, which is a legit point. The main thing you need to do is bring your partner dildo shopping so you can choose one together. Usually silicone is a safe bet. Plus, a lot of stores will show you how to put the dildo and the harness together, kind of like someone at a regular toy store helping you put together a Barbie dream house, if that Barbie dream house was about to go into someone's vagina. Yes, it matters if your strap-on equipment is well-made or if it's a piece of garbage you got a good deal on. Berman says she once wore a strap-on that was really uncomfortable and cheaply made, and it broke during sex, and I'm guessing no one was psyched to pick up the sad dildo up the ground that had random hair all over it and start again by trying to make a new harness out of a sheet. Now she recommends SpareParts harnesses. You can totally have different strap-ons for different moods and purposes. Carly has three different harnesses for different activities. It's really important to manage your expectations about how easy and hot strap-on sex will be. Victoria, host of sex podcast , 33, told me that the fantasy that you'll spontaneously screw and it will go seamlessly needs to be dismissed ASAP for everyone's sake. The reality is you'll have to take a break from fooling around to put the harness on, make sure it's fastened, and get out the lube, which is basically the opposite of spontaneous sex. In general, all the people I spoke with said having a sense of humor about all the potential pitfalls and awkward moments is definitely your best friend alongside lube... Lube is your BFF. Every person I spoke with mentioned lube at least three times, so definitely do not skimp on the lube situation. Your dildo's material can sometimes dry out your vagina, so it needs a lot more to help it slip in and out with ease. It will absolutely be awkward when you first put on the strap-on. Berman said when she first strapped on a strap-on, it just felt foreign to wear a penis, especially if you feel weird about your body, or your gender or sexual identity. In her first lesbian relationship, she was a bottom because she'd previously been with men and that's what she was used to, but once she felt more confident with her sexual identity, she was happy to be both a top and a bottom. You don't have to just stick with one role of the bottom or the top. My friend Jessi, 23, said she loves being both the giver and the receiver of strap-on sex and Victoria echoed similar sentiments. I can't even claim to be that good at doing the drilling myself. It's way more intimate than having someone use a vibrator on you. It requires a lot of set-up before and clean-up after. Laws says he hates seeing strap-on sex in porn or on TV I can personally only think of one scene in The L Word and of course the Broad City scene with pegging because it's really not seen very often on TV because it takes a lot more planning and set-up and clean-up than they ever show. It's not a penis, but use a condom anyway. Victoria says she recommends using a condom on the dildo for easier clean-up because that way you won't have to immediately wash all the dried bodily fluids off the dildo and leave it to dry. Plus, a lot of condoms are lubricated, which can help with any dryness caused by the dildo material. You should explore your strap-on in your day-to-day activities because why not. Giving a strap-on blow job can be totally hot. Laws told me the best advice he can give is to not overthink it, whether you're blowing someone or being blown. If you're the one receiving, once you feel connected to your equipment, you'll see the dildo as an extension of yourself and there'll be more of a mental feeling of stimulation that can translate into the physical. If you're giving, just be enthusiastic no matter what you're doing. Gripping the base of the dildo and grinding that into your partner's pelvis can help with clitoral and vulva stimulation. Just pay attention to the way they're responding, so you know how much or little to keep grinding. Here are all the things that might go wrong with your dildo and O-ring and harness. Laws says that once you have everything fitting right with your harness, you still might have issues. Most often, if you're using multiple dildos in one session or if you're new to strap-ons, you might find that not all your dildos or O-rings are the same size, and they need to have a snug fit or the dildo will wiggle out of the O-ring. Also, your harness snaps might not be up to the challenge of your vigorous sex-having and could come undone, or your straps could eventually get worn out if they're elastic. Seams and connection points can also get weakened over time. Laws says he usually doesn't feel like going right back into strap-on sex if any of those mishaps do happen and just moves on to something else. So make sure everything fits and is tightly in place before your boo comes over! Don't thrust as much as you might be tempted to thrust. Carly says a lot of women use their hips too much when they thrust, and recommends trying to keep your hips straight and thrusting lightly, instead of moving side-to-side. No, you obviously won't have sensation like it's attached to your body, but that doesn't really matter. Laws says that not having the sensation he'd have if the dildo was an actual body part is his least favorite thing about strap-on sex, but he still loves the power-play aspects, whether he's giving or receiving. Hintze, 27, a sexologist and sexuality educator at the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, says they've always been frustrated that they couldn't feel their partner's body reacting physiologically to the pleasure like they could when they used their hands, but just watching their partner enjoying it is hot enough for a lot of people. Follow Lane on and.

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