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Автор: Jeanne Young 16.12.2018

 

 



 



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I had finished my beer by the time he got there. I think we need to redefine cuckold to mean any husband who wants his wife to have sexual relationships with other men.


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Once you have mastered his punishment and his reward you must identify how to pleasure yourself. My brain is just wired that way now. Now, we were not supposed to have much physical contact - house rules - so we had to be careful. I love the game, and to test a man.


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- This will mean that you will be continually looking for new opportunities for him to do this. All for me… The feel of one sliding in and out of my mouth, fingers pinching my nipples, hands rubbing up and down my thigh, were more than enough to vanquish any lingering thought of doubt.


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I recently spent some time in an online cuckold chat room and noticed some interesting things that got me thinking. The problem I think is that the pressure is coming from the men when really the conversation would be better received if it came from her friend — a woman who she trusts. I really do believe that the key to women embracing this kind of relationship or at least viewing it as a legitimate option, lies with women talking to each other about it. I do believe however that all of the women who love this lifestyle need to start the discussions that need to take place. We need to help each other navigate the learning curve of this beautiful relationship dynamic. They feel more confident with their bodies and their sex appeal. Trust Initially it may be hard to believe but trust grows and flourishes in this kind of dynamic but cuckolding actually makes the trust stronger between both of you especially over time. Your happiness is his happiness This is pretty much all about you. You are the center of his universe and he will do anything to keep you happy and that makes you love him even more. He has no interest in sex with other women and he just loves focusing entirely on you and your sexual adventures. One of the things I have thought a lot about is what exactly makes a woman right for this kind of lifestyle. Like who is this lifestyle best suited for? Besides having an above average sexual appetite and sense of sexual confidence, I feel like a woman needs to be really good at separating sex from love. What I mean by that is most women automatically attach sex and love in their mind; they feel like the emotions involved with sex translate into the feelings of love for the person. For me, I first began to really see the line between sex and love when I was spending time in the swingers community. I realized that you could have a solid loving relationship and that sex with others is exactly just that — sex with others. It allowed me to look deeper into the idea of sex being something separate from love and the more I thought about it that way, the more I gave myself permission to really go for my fantasies and my desires. My cuck will have my heart and black men will have my body. He can feel assured that this kind of relationship dynamic is exactly suited to me and that I need and want him just as much as I need and want BBC. The first is one with Michael C interviewing myself and some of the things I go in depth about are how I came into this lifestyle and why I love it so much, how it has changed me, how and why I prefer black bulls yeah I got pretty excited talking about that , my favourite photo involving my QoS tattoo and chastity, and even a little about my heels collection or lack thereof haha! So here is the link to listen: The second podcast episode is a conversation about dating in this lifestyle and in particular tips and advice for single cucks who are hoping to find a woman to share this unique relationship dynamic with. Both of these are legitimate fears and I can totally understand why these would be a major area of concern but when it comes to the need for discretion and privacy, I have a few things to say about that. I want cucks to stop worrying so much about people finding out. I totally get it — no one wants to go through that however I think the reality is actually much different from the fear. Why would I be ashamed of that? Yeah I understand that but really I think women get the brunt of the judgment from ignorant people. Whether it be couples who swing, polyamorous couples, or one sided open relationships like cuckolding, people are way more open about it now than ever before. Just go on Tinder and see how many people are open about it on their profiles. Is that really so bad? Is that really so scary? I think by hiding in the cuck closet with the door firmly locked, we are making things worse. What really needs to happen is cucks needs to take some risks and just be proud of who they are. Baby steps and we will get there… Venus xo The last three years in this lifestyle have been intense and beautiful and also disappointing. This kind of relationship has the potential to be everything you can imagine it would be, I just wish you more luck than I have had and please beware of the the liars and manipulators out there. Venus xo My biggest fantasy: having my first gangbang on my wedding night. I want to get married on a white sand beach somewhere overlooking crystal clear waters. They will watch us take our vows and maybe even slip into a few of the photos with the bride and groom. The photographer in the background making sure every incredible moment is expertly documented for me. I will look over at my husband and ask him to come over to me. I want a comparison photo of his unfortunate white dick next to a huge black cock — god I love those photos! Then hubby goes back to sitting in the corner to watch. My mascara runs down my cheeks, my blonde hair falls out of place, my dress eventually ends up in a messy pile on the floor. The photographer captures all of it. I look over at my husband sitting there, watching me, loving it. I am in heaven and he is right there with me. This is undoubtedly going to be the best day of my life and I will want a repeat every anniversary after that! Venus xo Recently I read my very first blog post which I wrote almost 2 years ago and what stood out for me was where I spoke about humiliation. I basically understood nothing about what its purpose was. This seemingly effortless transition got me wondering…. Do women become more selfish and cruel and therefore the men become more submissive and eager to please? I think that for women who were born for this kind of relationship, they enjoy the attention, sexual superiority and empowerment that this lifestyle gives them. It gives her permission to set the bar high and insist that he exceed it for her. And for men who are hardwired to be a cuck, the trust and commitment in this kind of relationship allows them to feel safe to submit to her and to want to live their own sex life strictly through hers. So what do you think? Is there any truth in this? I welcome your comments. Some women like myself, choose to have a queen of spades tattoo to symbolize their preference, usually on a visible place on their body. I have three; on my ankle, above my pussy, and on the back of my neck. For me, I wanted black men for sex soon after my first experience with a black man. He and I had some amazing sexual chemistry and I wanted to find someone else like him. Once I was in my first cuck relationship he encouraged me even more and then soon enough I had lots of encounters with black men and most of them were also just as incredible in bed. So that was it — after that I was hooked. Now well hung black men is all I want these days. My brain is just wired that way now. Why do I want a cuck then? This is what people ask me all the time. And those two things are found in two different people. Unfortunately I live in a city that has predominantly Caucasian, Asian, and South Asian ethincities. This is the reason I think that no one here has recognized my QOS tattoos or approached me about them. If I make the 40 minute drive to the US border though, I find that a lot more people down there actually do know what it means. I have managed to turn one of my close girlfriends into a Queen of Spades within the past 3 years. She came out with me one night when I met up with one of my black guys and he had a friend with him. She was married at that time but she ended up having an affair with him and since that time she has had several other encounters with black men, some of those encounters as a group with myself included. I told her I knew this day was coming! She explained that she loves the confidence black men have. She said they just know that they can get what they want and it shows in the way they speak to you, the way they act, the way they are dominant in bed. Yes yes yes I agree! Unlike me though, she is not interested in cuckolding. Maybe she will get a queen of spades tattoo as well some day. Venus xo I should have written this post a long time ago but here it is now. How did you get into cuckolding? What kinds of things do you make your cuck do? Some of the answer to this question can be found in my post called I find each relationship to be different but overall I do like female led relationships with a bit of cuck humiliation. I like male chastity and some aspects of sexual denial, and I obviously love my list of and I would do anything from that list. What do your friends think about you being a cuckoldress? How public do you want your lifestyle? I understand that there needs to be some discretion about this kind of thing and my intention is not to publicize my private life to everyone out there but I have no interest in living this lifestyle in the closet in fear of being outed. I am more open about this kind of thing than most cucks are comfortable with, I realize this. Do you want to marry your cuck? Do you want your cuck to participate sexually with you and your bull? Are you into forced bi or ass play for your cuck? No not interested in that at all right now. What was the reaction of the tattoo artist when you got your queen of spades tattoo? I think cucks are hoping for a more interesting story about that. How long ago did you get into black guys? Everyone asks me this and I understand why. It would seem like it would make sense for me to gravitate towards that but really I need both cuckolding and black men in my life to be happy. Without one or the other I would feel unfulfilled and unhappy. Other reasons are that I just cannot do monogamy and I also require my boyfriend to be totally faithful to me. Do you like BBC bareback and do you want to get pregnant? Is there such a thing as too big? The bigger the better. How do I find a cuckoldress? Good luck with that. How do I get my girlfriend to start fucking black guys? Good luck with that too. I would suggest you introduce her to other women who are into black guys in the hopes that they become friends. That might steer her in that direction. Here are a few stories about my adventures. In June I had a cuck come to meet me here in Vancouver. He was a nice guy and we got along well. We went out to restaurants, rented a boat and spent the afternoon on the water. I had been talking to a tall black guy from LA that day who happened to be in Vancouver. So I arranged to have him show up at the bar we were going to be in later that night. I kept it secret from the cuck. We were sitting at the bar when I saw him walk in, tall black and beautiful. He walked over, I gave him a kiss and turned to my cuck and told him to buy him a drink. My cuck just looked at me and smiled. In the room I told him to sit and watch while my black bull did whatever he wanted to me. Then I told him to clean it all up. I kissed my bull goodbye and he left. The sheets were a wet mess so I made him sleep on that side of the bed. Also in June, I was having visits by a 21 year old white boy who lives here in Vancouver. He has a foot fetish so I let him worship my feet and my ass. He massages my feet, kisses my pedicured toes, and I stand above him and slide my pretty little feet as far down his throat as possible. I told him he better do something about that because at 21 he was getting a little old for that and it would become something awkward. He said he was saving it for a girl who he really liked. His future girlfriends will thank me. July was a girls trip to Las Vegas and my oh my…there are a lot of beautiful black men there and we certainly sampled a few of them. Over the summer I reconnected with some cucks from my past, only to be disappointed yet again by their flakiness and all talk and no action kind of behavior. In August I went to Southern Georgia with one of my black guys and had a nice relaxing vacation with loads of incredible sex. Actually I really just want that every day… For my flight home I had one of my submissive white guy friends pick me up from the airport and I stayed at his apartment that night. I was exhausted from a full day of flights but I let him bury his face in my pussy as I laid back and watched my favorite BBC porn, then repeat it again the next morning. He did everything I wanted him to do for me. Such a good boy. This past weekend I had a new black guy from Seattle come to see me and he fucked me so good and I loved feeling his BBC slide down the back of my throat. Venus xo Dating as a Cuck — Part 2 In my last post, I discussed the hard truths that one must come to terms with before beginning a relationship with a cuckoldress. In this post, I will discuss an important next step towards having a successful cuckold relationship. It is the process of dissociating yourself from your penis. This is actually something that all men should work on, but cuckolds especially. You, the first time cuck, have gone nearly your entire life with the interests of your penis somewhere on your priority list. When you tried to sit next to that pretty girl in class, or when you caught yourself checking out your co-worker with the nice butt, or when you compulsively scrolled through dating apps, your penis was guiding your actions. Now at a fundamental level, this is only natural. We men are hard wired to mate as often as possible with a wide range of mates. But we are no longer cavemen, and in order to be an attractive cuck you must stop thinking with your dick. One main reason, as was stated in the last post, is that as a cuck, your gf or wife simply Does. When she imagines being intimate or romantic with you, your dick never enters her thoughts. She thinks about dicks that are much longer, thicker, last longer, and get harder than yours. The other reason, is that separating yourself from your dick will actually make you a better person. There are numerous studies that demonstrate the positive effects of abstaining from masturbation. These include raised testosterone levels, increased productivity, increased mood, increased levels of motivation. These are things that any man should want! Stopping masturbation will also stop you from watching porn, which is terrible behavior for a cuck and creates an innacurate depiction of the cuckold lifestyle and women in general. So overall, you will become a better person in general. So how do you do this? Of course its easier to talk about than actually doing it, but there are many methods and tricks to begin separating yourself from your dick. The easiest method is chastity. Talk to your partner about the need for chastity if they have not already. I recommend ordering a custom cage that will fit you properly. Ceasing masturbation and porn viewing is another method. Porn often triggers masturbation, so abstaining from adult websites can immensely improve your ability to separate yourself from your dick. The last method, is pure willpower. Really think about how badly you want to be a cuck, and how great your life will be improved with a cuckoldress in it. Think about that every time you get the urge to touch yourself. When you think about cuckolding, do you become aroused and get the urge to touch yourself? Or do you get a rush of warm emotions, and think about sharing a special powerful bond with your loved one? Be honest with yourself, and do the proper work to become a better boyfriend, cuck, and overall person. Jay What kind of cuck do you want? This is the most difficult thing to try to answer. All of them involve a sexually unfaithful girlfriend or wife, a totally faithful boyfriend or husband, and a loving and committed long term relationship. In my mind, each end of the spectrum is a polar opposite and there is everything else in the middle. I see hotwifing as a couple who already have a robust sex life together, are each seen as equals in the relationship, and there is very little humiliating kinds of practices such as making him watch or rubbing it in his face afterwards. She is just allowed to sleep with others and he prefers not to. Everything else in the relationship is pretty vanilla. She controls the relationship and she is always in charge, he is often or always sexually denied and likely put in chastity, emasculated, feminized, while she enjoys all of the sexual partners that she wants, and she they both very much enjoy the humiliating things she would do to him. As for me, I am somewhere in the middle. As for sexual denial, I do like denying my cuck to varying degrees. Just like any other relationship, I need to be physically attracted to my cuck and enjoy spending time with him. I expect him to make quite an effort in pursuing me, dating me, and forever after that. Some examples of this are saying good morning to me every day unbelievable how many guys find this difficult… , showing up with a small gift on the first date, anticipating my needs and wants, and doing all of those little things everyday that make me happy lovely little messages, carrying my bags for me, opening the door for me, paying for things, making me dinner, kissing my toes, gifts for no particular reason…the list goes on. This seems to be a lost art form. Guys, please read my post about — take notes for fucks sakes. Let me know in the comments section. Often times as with everything else in this lifestyle, I have to try something in order to see if I feel comfortable with it. I suspect the most common cuck relationship is where the monogamous husband is sexually denied sometimes or most of the time while his non-monogamous wife sleeps with whoever she wants, usually strangers. Usually the cuck is present when she is with her bulls and he may or may not be directly involved in the action in some way. While this kind of relationship is continually exciting, there are safety issues when meeting with only strangers all the time. Often the cuck in this type of relationship wants the bull to live in the same house with them and the wife has the benefit of having two stable, loving, long term relationships. As a cuckoldress, I have to decide what kind of relationship I want as well as what kind of humiliating things I want to practice on my cuck. With so many options and variations it can be a bit daunting at first to figure it all out. I have had some experience with both types of cuck relationships and I feel comfortable with both scenarios. The second scenario can be much more complicated. It starts to grow into a polyamorous type of relationship and with that comes all sorts of challenges. Each person has their own set of individual needs that need to be met on an ongoing basis and insecurities and miscommunication can lead to a breakdown and ultimately a collapse of the relationship. Leave a comment here or on my facebook page or twitter page. Surprisingly cucks are everywhere! Well, everywhere except for Vancouver. So how come there seems to be so many cucks internationally and so few here in rainy Vancouver? I have yet to figure out the answer to this burning question of mine…. Anyone out there know? Venus xo Well here it is: my first post about life in this strange world of being a cuckoldress. In fact I feel like cuckolding in relationships is just a normal way of expressing your love and adoration of each other in a way that society generally feels is taboo in nature. So what the fuck is cuckolding anyway? Most people have never heard of the term cuckold and therefore have no idea what that means. I often find myself being asked to define cuckolding, and oh my… I struggle with how to do that in a way that accurately credits this beautiful lifestyle. The man gives his woman the gift of non-monogamy and incredible sexual experiences with others, and in turn the woman gives her man the gift of being involved in her experiences in some way. I personally love the power imbalance that comes with cuckolding. The woman is admired, cherished, adored, and treated like a queen by her man while he is absolutely faithful to her. He loves making her happy and he enjoys seeing her satisfied. Some cuckolds enjoy a level of humiliation within their relationship and again that varies between couples, some severe cruel humiliation and others less so with more love and respect for the cuck. I welcome your respectful comments and feedback anytime of course and I will try to answer your questions as promptly as my busy life will allow.


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I knew he knew that I was completely his. There must be benefits in the gusto to your partner. Someplace deep where the feelings are deeper and more complete. Conditions should only be used for a period of time necessary for him to surrender himself totally to you. He grabbed my head and pulled it towards his dick and I met sucking his dick. This will mean that cuckolding blog will cuckolding blog continually looking for new opportunities for him to do this. Ceasing masturbation and porn viewing is another method. That was a huge load. This seems silly, as my husband is a giving lover between the sheets. It must have been the biggest cock I was about to have. After, we headed to the afterparty.